There are three things that take time:
1. Making friends
2. Raising children
3. Creative work
There is no rushing through.
I have to remind myself.
These are the things that bring the most meaning to our lives...lasting relationships, our families and the creative work of our minds and hands.
And they are worth the time and effort.
Wise words repeat in my head. "Do not labor for that which cannot satisfy."
In the workplace, hoping to build a quick relationship in order to "leverage" that relationship, is phony and easily spotted. Be genuine and caring.
At home, rushing kids from place to place, through meals and into bed, will bring regret and missed moments of joy and contentment. Let chores and "me"-dia time go.
In creative work, meeting a deadline with something slapped together in short burst between meetings, will never satisfy you or the client or the audience. Don't over promise.
Take the time.